Thursday, 16 May 2013

I Love you !

10 ways to say "I Love You" without words !

Saying "I love you" is complicated. Luckily, you can tell someone you love them without words.
By Sarah Harrison from yourtango.com

Saying “I love you” comes with so much baggage. First, there’s the question of what you want it to mean. Is it a declaration of commitment? Is it a simple statement of appreciation? Do you even know why you want to say it?
Then there’s the question of when to say it. Do you plan a time, like a romantic dinner or a lazy Saturday morning in bed? Do you let it pop out unexpectedly? Or do you wait for him to say it first?
And finally there’s the question of how it’s received. Will it freak him out? Will he understand what you mean? Will he say it back? And if he does say it back, does he mean it the same way you do?
No matter how you answer all these questions, telling someone you love them is a big deal. So what if you’re not quite ready to say it, but you want to show it? Or what if you’ve already said it, and you want something more than just words?

Here are the ways...

·         1. Take a picture of yourself smiling while you're on the phone with him so he can see how happy he makes you.

·    2. Grab him when you're in front of a mirror or a reflective store window and say, 'Look, it's us!'

     3. Do the dishes, even though it's his turn.
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    4. Let him have the smushy pillow.

     5. Pay for dinner.
   
   6. Always answer his phone calls and respond right away to his texts and emails.

     7. Make his bed after he's left in the morning.

     8. Kiss his eyelids.

     9. Be the outside spoon.

     10.  Buy him toilet paper when you notice he's almost out.


Break up ?


Breaking Up? Best Apps to Get You Through the 5 Stages of Grief

Looking to erase an ex from your mind and reach the Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind? Today’s technology can help, with a clutch of apps and sites that make heartbreak hurt a little less.

Stage 1: Denial
Killswitch is a mobile app that removes all traces of your ex from your Facebook by deleting pictures, videos, wall posts, and status updates that tagged the two of you together. Ironically enough, it was released on Valentine’s Day.
Stage 2: Anger
Trash the stuff they gave you…or make money off of it. NeverLikedItAnyway.com lets heartbroken lovers sell gifts from their exes. Why burn/toss/shred ever again? Especially when there's a little cash possible to ease the pain.
Stage 3: Bargaining
Ex-Lover Blocker is an app that tackles the impulse to reconnect by publicly shaming you. Try to call an ex, and the app will send a text message to your closest friends so they can yell at you before you make a tragic mistake. As if that wasn’t enough, the app also posts an update on Facebook alerting the world of your attempt.
Stage 4: Depression
Anonymously mourn or vent on the Dear Old Love Tumblr. Sample posts include: "I can still feel you lying behind me, your laugh shaking me so much that I laughed too," and "It is your birthday tomorrow and I wanted to greet you, but then quickly realized that we’re no longer friends anymore, not even in Facebook." Feel better?
Stage 5: Acceptance
Congratulations! Now, don’t make the same mistake twice. FutureMe.org allows you to jot down your advice, and email it to yourself in the future. After that, do a happy dance. And meet someone new!